Who did what. I did it, Katherine. I abandoned everyone and laid down in a coffin for three years, in hopes that when I woke up, Elena would be awake and alive and we could begin our life together. [ The tone comes with the Katherine territory, but, it also comes with his frustration with his brother. ] Stefan read a letter I sent to Bonnie Bennett out loud over the phone, a letter I had only recently, relatively, written. One he's never read.